Saturday, August 1, 2009

What Do Women Really Want?

Here we go, again! I live in Atlanta – Black Hollywood, so to speak. It’s normal to hear women, calling in to radio stations, complaining about the lack of heterosexual, Black men. Naturally, Atlanta has its share of straight brothas. Let’s be real! Not every brotha is bi-sexual, gay, on the down low or a homo thug. Moreover, not every brotha has got game. Some exercise truth, reciprocity, peace, righteousness… the real stuff. There are some serious, single, educated, focused, determined brothas looking for a woman who hasn’t been corrupted by soap opera images or media chosen hunks. Mind you, just as every brotha is not gay, not every sista is hot or desirable. Yeah, Atlanta has a plethora of women by numbers and appearance, but once one applies the methods of choosing a woman the way that women choose men, we learn that a many women are just as disqualified as the brothas they are conditioned to berate.
What do women really want? Is it financial security? And if so, why do they seek out a thug type when the man who sacrifices and provides falls short in bed? Why must men step it up when women seem to perfect lying (about anything), feigning (about feelings), reserving (emotions), and saving the best of themselves for the lottery guy she has been convinced to believe will appear. Sadly, the guy she chooses - is what she deserves at that time.
Yeah, I’m listening. Speak up!

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